Karlè and Wynand’s engagement shoot

I have been so inactive these last few months and have so many posts I need to catch up on. Karlè is one of the people I love to photograph the most, she is such a natural in front of the camera.  Camera just loves her!  In just a few weeks I’m doing her wedding photos and I’m super excited to be part of her exciting day.

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A photo taken long before I was certified a photographer and before Karlè was even engaged.  A favorite of mine.

As I’ve said before she is one of my favorite people to take photos of, she knows exactly what she wants and it makes it so easy to take photos of her.  I’m excited for our next shoot.

So I had the pleasure of taking their engagement photos on the 17th of October.  Wynand was so patient and did not even get upset once, even tough there was a huge Springbok rugby game on the same day or even same time we were taking the photos.

“A good marriage requires time. It requires effort. You have to work at it. You have to cultivate it. You have to forgive and forget. You have to be absolutely loyal one to another.” Gordon B. Hinckley

“A good husband wipes her tears, but a great husband listens to the story of why she’s crying.’ –Unknown

“Husbands love your wives well! Your children are noticing how you treat her. You are teaching your sons how they should treat women and you are teaching your daughters what they should expect from men.” –Dave Willis

Prayer of a husband and wife: “Keep us o’ Lord from pettiness. Let us be thoughtful in word and deed. Help us to put away pretense and face each other in deep trust without fear or self-pity. Help us to guard against fault-finding, and be quick to discover the best in each other and in every situation. Guard us from ill-temper and hasty judgement; encourage us to take time for all things, grow calm, serene and gentle. Help us to be generous with kind words and compliments. Teach us never to ignore, never to hurt, never to take each other for granted. Engrave charity and compassion on our hearts.” –Unknown

“Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.” —Mark Twain

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Sentinel Peak, done and dusted

We decided to start doing a hike once a month as a family and as our first hike this year we decided to do Sentinel Peak, yes I know a full day hike might not have been the best option, just ask Tamaran! I’ve decided that walking my 6000+ steps a day plus regular exercise would help me, and it did help a whole lot, as I’m not really stiff, just feel like I had a good leg day at the gym.

But anyone that is living in the Eastern Free State and haven’t done the hike, you really need to go! It’s absolutely stunning the views cannot be explained or captured in a picture as the real life view. You feel small in the awesome and spectacular views you looked at.

The Sentinel Peak according to govertical.co.za is the highest free standing peak in the Northern Drakensberg, South Africa. The climb is 3165m. Using the chain ladders you will have access to the Mont-Aux-Sources Plateau, the Amphitheatre and Tugela Falls.

There is two sets of chain ladders, one of 40m and the other of 20m and then you had two styles as well, the one had rings to hold onto and the other one was plain ladder.  I prefer the wheels to hold on up onto the peak, but down I preferred the one without the rings, but my children preferred the ring ones, so I guess its all depending on your own personal choice.  Two of my girls are afraid of heights and they both made it to the top and down again.  It did take a little coaching and encouragement, but we all made it up and down without any injury 🙂  That it takes guts is no lie!

We almost missed the Falls as when we reached the top of the chain ladders we climbed to the top onto the Plateau and seen some rocks on a heap and thought, ‘this is it we reached the top’, fortunately a couple returned from the Falls and told us not to stop there, we have to do the extra 30 or so minute hike to the Falls to see the spectacular views there. So thank you stranger and your companion for telling us about it.

So according to the internet and with different sources via my google search I’ve discovered that the Falls we were at is called the Tugela Falls, which is the highest Falls in Africa and 2nd highest in the world. Apparently the highest is the Angel Falls in Venezuela. The Angel Falls have a drop of 979 meters and the Tugela Falls a drop of 947 meters.   It’s amazing to think we were standing basically in or on the frozen Tugela Falls, and it’s also very scary to think that we casually stood there on the edge.

Mont-Aux-Sources is just over 3254 meters above sea level.

The Sentinel Car park at 2500 meters above sea level at the Witsieshoek Resort and can only be reached via Phuthaditjaba, which in turn is only a short distance from Kestell and about an hour drive from Bethlehem.

Standing literally on top of the world made me feel very small indeed.  This is one hike I will recommend to anyone with a little sense of adventure.  Just make sure that you use a SUV or a bakkie as the road to the parking area is really bad and will take a little while before they are finished with the paved road, then it would be a pleasure.  And we were so fortunate to have the clear skies for our whole day hike, as lots of people tell me they had it wet and misty, I don’t think I will be brave enough to do it in that conditions.  We had a little wind when we came down the chain ladder, but that was it.  Oh and it’s much cooler and even cold on top at the Plateau.  The stream all the way to the edge was frozen, and even though it was frozen there were little black fishes swimming in the pools, amazing how nature adapts to circumstances.Sentinel Peak072 I am so proud of my eldest for finishing the whole route as this is not what she deems fun and is really scared of heights.  On her way up on the chain ladder it moved and she started having a panic attack half way up, it was so scary and fortunately Danielle was right next to her on the other ladder and was talking her through it and she managed to stop the attack by breathing slower and slower.  Her husband Francois literally ran up the ladder to get to her, that is not really advised, should only have one person on the ladder at a time.  This photo was taken at the mouth of the Falls.  Well, done Tamaran!

Bronwen must have the biggest blisters I have ever seen a person can get, but she also persevered to the end and was rewarded with the stunning view.  And also having a slight scare of heights she did amazingly well!  Danielle our born mother hen, nearly had a nervous breakdown!  She kept saying don’t go so close to the edge, be careful, think, rather walk slower…  But she also made it up and down without any permanent damage.  Francois was in his element and thought he was in heaven.  And me, if I can do it you can do it, I am a mother of 3 adult daughters and one teenager (who stayed at home as she is petrified of heights and doesn’t like anything remotely sporty). And to top it all off I had to carry my camera with to the top and back, no questions asked.  Thank you Danielle for helping me with the carry work.

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Sentinel Peak ticked off from my bucket list, so many more to do…

Oh so stressful, wedding photos in the lovely cold wet Bloemfontein

My gorgeous eldest daughter and child, as I only have daughters, got married on the 27th of June.  How did I land up doing her wedding photos?  Good question, I’m still wondering about this myself.

But since it’s been my first and I don’t know if I will ever venture into that stressful venture again to do photos at another daughter’s wedding…  Will have to wait and see!!!

The idilic day started not so wonderful, it started raining as it should not do in winter time, non-stop Friday during the night and carried on raining until just before the wedding was about to start.  For the first time ever we as a family prayed for the rain to cease.  I honestly started going into a panic attack when it just rained and rained…

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I would like to take time now to thank Renskie Rossouw for the stunning dresses, the girls all looked stunning in the bridesmaids dresses and the bride was breathtakingly gorgeous in her dress.  Thank you so much!

I think as a mother I got emotional so many times and being behind the lens was difficult at times and my mom had to jump in regularly to help with the little thing ‘mommy’ was meant to do.  Thank you Mamma for being my pillar of strength when you were needed.  Even when it was to just spray antistatic on the girls legs.

My gorgeous Tamaran was such stunning bride!  I could not have been more proud of the young lady she has become.

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I’ve spoken about the 8 cow wife on my other blog, click on the link and take a look at it.  I’m so grateful that my daughter chose well and that she married someone that would love her unconditionally.  Thank you Francois for looking after my baby.

They are such a wonderful couple.  And even while the day started miserable and wet and horrible it turned out to be an awesome evening.  There is an old wives tale that say that when it rain on your wedding day, that your marriage will be a blessed one.  And I believe this will be a blessed one!

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I love South Africa

We are so fortunate to live in South Africa.  Why do I say this?  Well, were else can you go in the middle of a town for a walk, run or drive on a little ‘hill’ called Naval Hill and witness a Giraffe nibbling on some greenery?  Yes, the girls was standing literally a few meters away from it.  A friend of mine allowed it to eat out of her hand before.  I miss Naval Hill and would have loved to do the walk, no not run, walk every Saturday as they’re doing now that we live so far away.

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And where else will you get scenery like this while travelling between towns:

On route from Clarence to Fouriesburg
On route from Clarens to Fouriesburg

Yes, we are very fortunate to live in a Country as gorgeous as ours.  Yet we do not appreciate it as we should!  The news is full of plunder, murder, neglect and all sorts of corruption.  Why can’t we just stand together and become a nation that appreciate the absolute stunning Creation and take hands and make it a better place for the generations to come.  The way we carry on is going to destroy our Country and we will leave no heritage for those that is coming after us.

I love my Country!!!

Tamaran’s Kitchen Tea

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Tamaran when you had the Kitchen Tea you know time is getting little and the wedding is around the corner.

And always take photos of the events as you won’t remember anything in a year or two.  Photos is an amazing way of keeping record of any event.  I’m so grateful that I can be keeping record of this special event in your life Tamaran.  These are memories that you would be able to treasure for years to come.

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The future teachers.  They will all finish the end of this year with their studies.  We just missed Gabriella, she was at work.  Four years is a long time to spend together and you cannot other than form a bond.  Good luck with the up-coming exams girls and remember to enjoy the last little stretch of your studies.

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I am so lucky to have such gorgeous daughters with gorgeous friends.  It’s so easy to take photos of such gorgeous people.  Just one more photo and I think I need to arrange a shoot with this young lady she’s gorgeous and the camera loves her.

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‘Affi Lande’

This morning I had to fetch my daughter Clarissa at a friend in Fouriesburg and on our way there I saw these cute signs advertising a road stall or as they say in Afrikaans a ‘padstal’.  So we decided on the spur of the moment to stop and have some breakfast quickly.  And I loved it, just loved it.  Whenever you are on route anywhere near Fouriesburg do yourself a favour and stop there.

Bronwen and I decided we are going to explore the different places around Bethlehem and go to the hidden treasures like ‘Affi Lande‘ to try out the breakfasts and will then come and report.  This one is getting a definite A+ from me.

So watch this space for the next breakfast enjoyed in our absolute scenic, ‘prentjie-mooi’, stunning Eastern Free State or any other place we might be at.

“Varkoor”

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I grew up with knowing the flower as the ‘varkoor’, I really don’t know why.  Direct translation is pigs ear, yes I know it doesn’t make sense.  It is also known as an Arum Lily.  This is my absolute favourite flower.  When you drive to certain areas in South Africa they literally grow wild in marshy wet areas.  Stunning, beyond words.  This one is growing in my garden and they have gorgeous big flowers, I was so sad when we moved from Bloemfontein and I knew I’m going to have to leave my plants behind, imagine my delight when I discovered I have even bigger and better plants in the new garden.  For those that would like to have there scientific name: Zantedeschia.

Just a little family history:~  My dad was so excited the one day, he got home with a whole lot of bulbs and told my mom that he got her black ‘varkore’.  And yes you do get black ones, as well as yellow and I think a pinkish colour.  So excitedly these bulbs were planted and then the long wait started for the plants to grow and eventually carry flowers.  I will never forget the disappointment on my dad’s face when they were all the white flowers.  Sadly he was taken by some or other not so honest salesman from the Western Cape.  I love my dad and miss him every day.

Road trip with my girls

As you have noted I’ve been absent for a few months.  We have relocated to the Eastern Free State and I haven’t really taken my camera out much.  So yesterday I took my daughters on a semi road trip to explore the area.  We took a drive to Clarence and from there to Fouriesburg and back to Bethlehem.  The landscape scenery in this area is absolutely breathtakingly stunning and just proof that there is a Higher Hand involved in the Creation thereof.

But take a look for yourselves and don’t just take my word for it:

In Fouriesburg there is a restaurant called The Ginger Pig it is super cute and I think we need to go and eat something there in the near future. Photo is in the gallery.  And the police station is such a gorgeous building.  Love these small little towns in the Eastern Free State.

Family is everything

I haven’t posted anything in such a long time,  but as I said on my FB page, data on my cellphone is expensive and Telkom is installing my ADSL line at long last this Friday coming.  Then I can carry on with my photo a day.

This weekend my house was almost full again, we just missed Danielle that is in London at the moment.  This afternoon we took a drive to the dam wall as Clarissa really wanted to go on it the last time and I felt it not safe on our own, but today we had Francois with us.  I still don’t think it is meant for human trafficking at all and fortunately there was no sudden flashes of water that came down from somewhere and we could safely walk to a little watchtower castle thingy.  Very pretty setting and I am sure it must be gorgeous when in flood, then we would not be able to walk on it…

The following photos taken to the one side of the wall and the other to the other:

I love my family so much and makes me think of the quote of Elder M.Russell Ballard:  “Indeed, nothing is more critically connected to happiness — both our own and that of our children — than how well we love and support one another within the family.”

Gloomy

This morning when we woke up the whole of Bethlehem was covered in a blankie.  While driving Clarissa to school I told her when I get home and its still covered I will take a photo of it.  So this is my Photo of the Day a very gloomy Bethlehem!

Just now I showed Bronwen the photo and this is how the conversation went:

B: Is it London?

Me: Now it’s Bethlehem

B: Oh that’s just depressing!

I think it’s actually cool!  Will jump in the van with hubby while he is doing the deliveries and get some photos of the surrounding areas and towns as well.  So watch this space for more…

A little history from Wikipedia:

Bethlehem is a town in the eastern Free State province of South Africa that is situated on the Liebenbergs river (also called Liebenbergs Vlei) along a fertile valley just south of the Rooiberg Mountains on the N5 road.

It is a wheat growing area and named after the biblical Bethlehem (from “Beit Lechem”, Hebrew for “house of bread”).[3]

The town lies at an altitude of 1,700 metres (5,600 ft) and this contributes to its cool climate with frosty winters and mild summers. The average annual temperature is around 24 °C (75 °F)

Bethlehem is situated approximately 240 kilometres (150 mi) north-east of Bloemfontein, 140 kilometres (87 mi) east of Kroonstad and 90 kilometres (56 mi) west of Harrismith.